What Is the goal of mediation?
The goal of mediation is to reach a mutual agreement. During mediation, couples discuss terms such as property distribution, child custody, child support, and spousal support. Couples may also elect to mediate issues that arise after a divorce has been finalized.
How does mediation work?
Mediation helps couples resolve disputes by meeting with a neutral mediator who facilitates discussions but doesn’t make decisions. The goal is for both parties to agree on terms with the mediator’s help. You don’t need an attorney beforehand, though it can be useful. The process usually involves multiple sessions, and in Ohio, a mediation summary is non-binding until finalized by an attorney.
What are the benefits of mediation?
Mediation lets couples control their divorce decisions instead of a judge. Benefits include choosing your mediator, meeting privately, and setting your own schedule. It's often faster, cheaper, and fosters cooperation, which is especially helpful for joint custody. Some couples include a mediation clause in their divorce agreements to avoid future court disputes.
What can I expect from mediation?
In divorce mediation, our neutral third-party mediators help you and your partner work through the issues related to your divorce in three buckets: (1) child custody and parenting time (2) asset and debt division and (3) exchange of funds and/or income division (spousal support, child support and payment of children’s expenses). Our mediators facilitate productive communication between you and your partner, guide the negotiation process, and help you reach a mutually acceptable agreement. Mediation is voluntary, and you and your partner must agree to any settlement reached.
When is divorce mediation right for me?
Divorce mediation is a good option for couples who want to maintain control over the outcome of their divorce and avoid the time, expense, and uncertainty of a court battle. Mediation is especially beneficial for couples who are committed to working together, are willing to work toward mutual respect, and are willing to compromise. Mediation can also be helpful for couples who want to preserve an amicable relationship for the sake of their children.
What if my partner does not want to do mediation?
Mediation is a voluntary process, and both parties must agree to participate. If your partner is unwilling to participate in mediation, you may need to pursue other options, such as hiring attorneys and going to court. However, having an open conversation with your partner about the benefits of mediation and how it could be a positive way to work through the divorce process may be helpful.
Are my kids welcome to mediation?
Children are not typically present during mediation sessions. However, their needs and interests will be taken into consideration as part of the process. If you and your partner agree, a child specialist or mental health professional may be brought in to provide additional support in helping to develop a parenting plan that is in the best interests of your children.
Can you finalize my divorce during the mediation process?
Once you and your partner have reached an agreement, our mediators will draft a memorandum of understanding outlining the settlement terms. This document can be used as a basis for your divorce or dissolution decree. However, our mediators cannot finalize your divorce. You will need to draft and file the appropriate paperwork with the court to obtain a final decree.